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  • my gf samantha is nowhere to be found its driveing me mad

INTERNECION I'm really quiet around new ones but once I start to understand that person more, I get comfortable knowing what that person's boundaries are. I have been looking but not hard enough. I'm more focused on academic stuff & programming right now. I like to think that people are just missing out on a great person unless they already have someone good.

    Or you just need to get out more. But if you want to focus on your academic studies that's fine too. You'll just stay a virgin until you graduate college and even then you have to look for someone and have the skills to be with them as well. Unless of course someone has a crush on you but no offense it is just so unlikely for the common person to know whether or not they are being crushed on by someone else and you would never know unless the signs were so obvious that it would be a big neon light powerful enough to light up the entire city of Chicago. This is very complicated stuff and I don't know how I know this. but it's effective

      INTERNECION & I'm pretty fine being a virgin for a long time. & I really doubt people have a crush on me but like you said, it's completely possible. It just might not be for a long time.

        TRU SAME HERE. Like one time I remember someone had a crush on me but I didnt figure it out until the end of the school year and I had to move schools! I regret it to this day but I am doing fine now

          INTERNECION Thank you for the advice. I'm a male and she is a female. We known each other for 6 years now and we know a lot about each other. Apparently shes had this crush on me for at least 6 months. We still have been talking to each other over the phone, ever since i moved several years ago. I think shes willing to do a long distance relationship. Any other tips?

              INTERNECION That sucks. Also, I think it's funny with my luck on crushes because just about any person I like/liked has either, lost contact to me, wasn't a good person, never really liked me, or others. It never seems to work in my favor even though I am a great person.

                person So long term relationship... It barely EVER works for other people. Unless you have the patience of Ghandi himself and the trust of a god. However I think you can make it work. But its just that there is a higher chance she will find someone else if you are not together in the same area more of the time. There is always a brightside to situation though. You just have to believe! I know that sounds like a cat poster but it's true. Because if she is a person you can trust FULLY like 100% not 99.99999999999999999999...% but 100% then lets hope that you are good. I am only saying this because it's a long distance relationship. Those are brutal unless you get back together in the same area and stay together

                  she has that exact cat poster

                  Thank you for the advice :)

                  I don't have any friends anymore since I moved to Texas. :(

                  He said "us" as in him and "other people." But since I am never "other people", I offered my help cuz that's the right thing to do

                  ok let's put this excellent advice to the test

                  hypothetical situation

                  person A likes person B
                  person B likes person C
                  person C likes person A

                  how do you make them happy

                  So this will usually end up in someone being heartbroken or they can just accept it. But this situation, there is always someone that is gay. No problem with that I am just saying.

                  So by logic one person will have to either:

                  A. Let the other person go

                  B. One person has to realize that the other person likes them

                  C. Someone has to confess and then what happens next is based on the kind of person.

                  D. They threesome. Even if they are quite unlikely to do that. The probability is low but NEVER zero.

                  Speaking of ZERO! You have given me ZERO information to who these people are, where these people are, and how these people are. You gotta give me more information. SURELY you can do that even though you lack in doing that alot. How am I supposed to know the possible outcomes if you can't narrow it down by giving information. You said you were smart, make something up!

                    Ok Imma need more information than that.

                    um
                    they're friends
                    and they're gay
                    and

                    uh

                    they like chick fil a but they have to pretend not to be gay at chick fil a cuz chick fil a is christian and thus anti gay

                    Ok I can't answer this question. Cuz I have no clue as to who these three people are. I don't know their personalities individually. I don't know how long they have known each other. I barely know their status as to how they think of each other fully. I don't know what they are into. I don't know if either of them have trust issues. I don't know the actual problem here. You only said that the love each other but not the other as much how do I solve this problem. I don't see a problem I only see a scenario and not a problem. I don't know what they if they are a stereotype. There is alot I don't know about this hypothetical situation that could help me solve this problem.

                    wait chick fil a is christian??? welp never going there again

                      person that's kind of rude. Also that's not how that works either.

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